Building or Breaking?

This year I am trying to notice everything that comes out of my mouth. The Bible says what comes out of the mouth is in the heart. Especially in life coaching or songwriting coaching, I must be careful how I challenge my clients to face those fears they do not want to face. Sometimes they don't even see they are walking in fear or that they are even struggling with a problem.

I can build my friends, family or clients or I can break them down by what I say to them. It's a fine line. I was thinking about this and realized we are always building or breaking in everything we do. When you talk to your friends and you want to challenge, do you break them down or do you build them in the process of challenging their behavior? It all comes from the carefully chosen words...or not.

Breathe

Breathing is such a simple thing to do. We don't even think about it most of the time. Occasionally, I will hear of someone with asthma or lung cancer, and quickly thank the Lord for my ability to breathe.

Again, that thought came to me as I was watching CNN's Anderson Cooper cover Haiti. Anderson was apologizing for having to cough on camera. Apparently, the rescue workers had to burn several bodies  they had found in the rubble. The cameras were set up near this area and the air was thick with the smell and flakes of burned flesh. He was struggling to breathe.

I have not been a big fan of CNN or Anderson Cooper, up to this point. They are usually too liberal for my taste. However, I must admit they have really stepped up their coverage of Haiti's earthquake and the aftermath. Anderson Cooper has gone beyond reporting in my opinion. He is very professional, yet tenderhearted. I am sure he will have quite a journey of recovery from the many gruesome sites he has witnessed.

So, today I am grateful for my comparative calm life. I am blessed not to draw the breath Anderson and the Haitian people are breathing in and smelling. I remember that smell from going to NYC the week after 9/11. It's distinct and you never forget it.

Keep praying for these people and especially for Heavenly protection for the little children who are alone.

John Travolta Sends an Airplane

John Travolta is sending an airplane to Haiti with supplies. It sounds like such a nice thing for a celebrity until you read a littler further. ( By the way, I love John Travolta. I have had the opportunity to talk with him for 30 minutes. He's a wonderful guy. He's had a really tough year. So, I don't begrudge him anything.)
 

The article goes on to say Travolta is sending "ministers" down to Haiti. These are ministers that recruit victims into his cult, Scientology. Haitians need medical personnel, supplies, and water. They need the very basics of life right now. Every person getting into that country right now is vital. The victims need skilled people to help get their families medical help or remove their loved ones from the rubble that still may be alive. CNN showed last night where they were still recovering people. The teams that are presently on the ground are struggling to do the very best they can with this catastrophe. The last thing they need are a non-skilled "ministers of Scientology."


It seems way up there on the ridiculous scale to waste this opportunity. Instead, because of celebrity, a "minister" of the gospel of Scientology is sent bumbling into a earthquake shattered country to do an "assist", which is equivalent to a bad massage.

The Devastation

The devastation of Haiti is palpable. Life is so precious. Sometimes we wonder if we can actually make it through these hard economic times. Yet, in a moment, in a twinkling of an eye, our life can be snuffed out like candlelight. When we watch what is going on there, are you grateful for what you have here? The hardness we face seems so minimal compare to what living hell these people are going through every minute. Our lives can turn on a dime. Never forget that. No one escapes time, calamity, or death. No one.

Time Flies

I was watching "Little People Big World" and the twins, Jeremy and Zach, are graduating. It made me think of my dear Evan and Claire in Kentucky. They are twins that I call my "babies." They are not my babies, but in my heart they are like mine. In about eighteen months, they will be graduating.

I remember the day Evan came home and his mom, Lisa, let me hold him and feed him formula. They were premature and he only weighed five or six pounds when he came home. Claire was still in the hospital. I could put his whole hand on the end of my thumb. Now he is over six foot and probably 180 pounds, at least. Claire was always watching me. She was a watcher of the human condition from the very beginning. She still is a watcher. She is one that will definitely look before she leaps.

It was just a second ago. I can remember those moments so clearly. It was like it was yesterday. They were babies and now they are practically adults. Time flies. Don't waste the time because it is gone before you know it.

The Secret Ingredient...isYOU!

The television advertisements are everywhere. Apparently, Michelle Obama, The First Lady, is going to reveal a secret ingredient for tonight's "Iron Chef." The ads are around the clock. The background music builds and you would think that The President is about to reveal a "for eyes only" national secret. . The  "SECRET" ingredient is tied to Michelle Obama. I find out that the secret ingredient is the White House garden. It was all just laughable, then I got to thinking about that phrase, "a secret ingredient."

We all have the secret ingredient. We just don't think about it most of the time. The secret ingredient is...You. You are your own secret ingredient. We forget that fact. The most important characteristic we have is the fire that is within us all. God gave that to us, each and every one. We just have to listen to our hearts and we will find out exactly what is our "secret ingredient."

BELIEVE OR NOT TO BELIEVE..THAT IS THE QUESTION..

In this economic turbulence you have the choice to believe things will be better, or not. I know many who are struggling right now. My life experience tells me the struggle is as much in thinking as with what is going on around you. Many have made millions of dollars on encouraging the buyer, in various ways, to do one thing. Believe in yourself.

It's just one word. Believe. It sounds so simple when you say it out loud. Believe. The rub comes when one puts that belief into action. When things look really bad, how do you believe they will turn around, when nothing "looks" like it will? Billy Graham has been quoted, "God is more interested in your future and your relationships than you are." If that is true, then we must decide to believe God has great things in store for us. Look up, pray, think on the good things and look toward the best that can happen, instead of the worst.


©2010 Lynn Barrington. All Rights Reserved.

Freedom in the New Year

I just got off a coaching call that inspired me! Sometimes we are all afflicted with accepting less for ourselves. We forget we actually have rights! Yes, people of America, I am talking about our right to be free.

Most of the time we think of freedom in terms of the national perspective. I am talking today about our personal freedoms. We have the right to change our minds from poor thinking habits to successful thinking habits. Habits that do not work for us we can drop like a hot potato! The problem is that much of the time we just hang on to those thoughts or habits that are clearly not working.

Jesus said in Matthew 17, "the children of the king are free." If you believe, you have the freedom, you do. You can live in that freedom. Certainly, it is an act of will that we cannot allow to fall through the cracks. We must shore up those cracks! We are free this brand New Year of 2010. Walk and talk in your freedom. Change, you are FREE to do so at your leisure.


©2010 Lynn Barrington. All Rights Reserved.